Three S Formula For A Happy Life.

Life certainly is not a bed of roses. 

Trials & tribulations galore. 

Distress is ubiquitous, gloomy faces are in abundance. 

Though some amount of stress is inevitable, undue tensions severely damage body and mind. 

I have found that mainly there are two causes behind the unwarranted unhappiness in the contemporary times. 

These are : 

(a) mistaken belief that one is incomplete. 

(b) not able to differentiate between needs and wants. 

Nowadays one considers oneself "incomplete" unless one has things  considered consequential by the society. 

One then strives hard, often becomes self-centered, to get hold of these things - high salaried job, wealth, SUV, big mansion. 

In the process one may get recognition in the society but not real happiness. 

You see, happiness doesn't lie outside, in acquisitions. 

To attain happiness, one has to make an inward journey possible through meditation. 

𝙏𝙤 𝙧𝙚𝙢𝙖𝙞𝙣 𝙝𝙖𝙥𝙥𝙮 𝙤𝙣𝙚 𝙢𝙪𝙨𝙩 𝙖𝙘𝙘𝙚𝙥𝙩 𝙤𝙣𝙚𝙨𝙚𝙡𝙛 𝙖𝙨 𝙘𝙤𝙢𝙥𝙡𝙚𝙩𝙚 𝙖𝙣𝙙 𝙪𝙣𝙞𝙦𝙪𝙚. 

𝙊𝙣𝙚 𝙢𝙪𝙨𝙩 𝙣𝙚𝙫𝙚𝙧 𝙖𝙥𝙚 𝙤𝙩𝙝𝙚𝙧𝙨. 

𝙊𝙣𝙚 𝙢𝙪𝙨𝙩 𝙥𝙖𝙮 𝙝𝙚𝙚𝙙 𝙩𝙤 𝙤𝙣𝙚'𝙨 𝙝𝙚𝙖𝙧𝙩'𝙨 𝙫𝙤𝙞𝙘𝙚, 𝙜𝙞𝙫𝙚 𝙬𝙚𝙞𝙜𝙝𝙩 𝙩𝙤 𝙤𝙣𝙚'𝙨 𝙥𝙧𝙤𝙘𝙡𝙞𝙫𝙞𝙩𝙞𝙚𝙨. 

Differentiating between needs and wants is imperative. 

One has to understand that needs are few, can be fulfilled without much effort. 

Wants, on the other hand, are innumerable. Howsoever hard one may try, wants can never be fulfilled! 

𝙐𝙣𝙛𝙪𝙡𝙛𝙞𝙡𝙡𝙚𝙙 𝙬𝙖𝙣𝙩𝙨 𝙘𝙖𝙪𝙨𝙚 𝙙𝙞𝙨𝙩𝙧𝙚𝙨𝙨 𝙖𝙣𝙙 𝙖𝙣𝙜𝙚𝙧. 

𝙃𝙖𝙥𝙥𝙞𝙣𝙚𝙨𝙨 𝙡𝙞𝙚𝙨 𝙞𝙣 𝙛𝙤𝙘𝙪𝙨𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙤𝙣𝙡𝙮 𝙤𝙣 𝙩𝙝𝙚 𝙛𝙪𝙡𝙛𝙞𝙡𝙢𝙚𝙣𝙩 𝙤𝙛 𝙣𝙚𝙚𝙙𝙨. 

For a blissful life, I have formulated a formula and have named it 𝙏𝙝𝙧𝙚𝙚 𝙎 𝙁𝙤𝙧𝙢𝙪𝙡𝙖 - 𝙎𝙚𝙡𝙛 𝙘𝙤𝙣𝙩𝙧𝙤𝙡, 𝙎𝙞𝙢𝙥𝙡𝙚 𝙡𝙞𝙫𝙞𝙣𝙜, 𝙎𝙡𝙖𝙫𝙚 𝙩𝙤 𝙣𝙤𝙣𝙚 (𝙥𝙚𝙤𝙥𝙡𝙚 𝙤𝙧 𝙥𝙤𝙨𝙨𝙚𝙨𝙨𝙞𝙤𝙣𝙨). 

~ Sanjay Gargish ~